Freewill....

So they say FREEWILL is one of the gifts giving to man by God but how come we are not allowed to choose our family(dont start thinking i dont like ma family o, thats one of God's best gift to me),like come to think of it,if freewill was actually one of the gifts,would all these kids that live in abject poverty in countries like sudan and all those african countries choose to be in such situation, wouldnt they choose their own family, the likes of bill gate, and all those eye popping billionaires? Would anyone choose to come from a poor family or a nameless family where you are subjected to oppression, depression and all the low quality of living?...so why exactly do they say FREEWILL is a gift if we cant choose everything we want?? And if FREEWILL is actually a gift why are there things like FATE, DESTINY and all those things they say determine your life?

But the thing is, if you are actually given the choice to choose the family you want to come from, would you choose any that is differnt from the one you are from right now? Even though i have been thinking of what it would be like being adenuga's daughter or dangote's daughter, if i am faced with the choice of picking a family to come from, would i pick anyone different from mine? would i say because i am so different in my house at times i feel like i'm adopted or mayb i was changed in the hospital..(all this ddnt happen btw), pick a different family? what would be my basis of picking a family, would it be how wealthy the family is or how happy, or how famous, like what exactly would be my criteria for picking assuming i know every detail about each family? Thinking of all this as a baby, wont my little head explode just because i want to choose a family to come from *rme*...

So maybe freewill is a gift yh, but it definitely doesnt apply to everything and in a way i'm actually happy i dont have to bug ma head all in the name of choosing a family, i guess there are just some things we have to leave for God to figure and in the end your family is not just your siblings and parents,they are also people that make impact one way or the other in your life (so dont blame yoruba people for calling every1 their uncle and aunty even when u know so well it's Aristo..lool), people you can run to when no one is there, people that would always be there for you no matter wat, people that would annoy you at all times, make you laugh at all times and people that would always stick with u when no one is there reminding you that they are God's little gift to you.......